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Why 400 square feet is better than 4000

Hand holding a small model of the first floor of a house with a smaller toy house resting on top.
Photo: Jakub Żerdzicki

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Now that the world has its first trillionaire, it's a good time to ponder the value of big numbers. A thirteen-digit figure is hard to contemplate, but our minds have been trained to greet expansive things with a sense of awe. Aren't larger totals worthy of an enlarged feeling of astonishment?

I'd argue the opposite is true. Gigantic scale may be a shameless attention getter, but our focus is better rewarded when we calibrate it to what's limited, compact, even tiny.

As someone who's lived in the same studio apartment for over 16 years, I know that accepting the gifts of smallness can be more satisfying than yearning for much much more. If I could summarize what I've learned, it falls into four categories.

Guaranteed simplicity

There's an unburdened feeling you get when arriving in a hotel room. It might be the subconscious realization that all you need to live is a subset of your belongings – the rest is surplus. Living in a small space keeps you aiming toward this state of pared-down equilibrium.

High-impact renewal

A creative addition to a large dwelling – a bouquet of fresh flowers, a new coffee table book – barely registers amid all the square footage. In a small space, however, these little gestures resonate, affecting everything at once. It's comforting to be able to make dramatic revisions with minimal effort.

Essential generosity

In tight quarters, the arrival of something new means the eventual departure of something that's been hanging around for a while. It's a prompt to be unselfish with possessions, releasing them to friends, family, or charities when the time is right. Beauty circulates more readily when held loosely by homes that can only hold so much.

Unexpected space

Sustained attention has a way of magnifying what it encounters. When you tune in to the details of your space, you'll find it's hardly as small as you thought it was. Our growing library of micro moves is a set of shortcuts to making your four walls less constrictive. In fact, this entire newsletter is devoted to training your eye to see fresh horizons.

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From the archives

A long-running theme in this newsletter has been how to live lightly by shedding what no longer serves you. Check out these selections:

Purge: micro-decorating move #9
Sometimes love means letting go.
More tips on letting go
What Pharrell Williams knows.
How to let go of books
The weekly micro-decorating newsletter * Issue 8 of 13, SS23 * Subscribe free * The world is full of enticements to buy books – but not nearly enough prompts to relinquish them. If you’re a lover of the printed word like I am, it’s easy to find yourself with more than

Elsewhere

Is your taste truly your own? Or is it manufactured by the algorithm? This long read in The Guardian points to some answers:

‘Have I been influenced, or is this actually me?’ How personal taste fell out of fashion
Our favourite music, clothes and books used to be markers of individuality – but the algorithm has made us all sheep. Meet the style rebels fighting back

I hope this newsletter helps you refine your taste without being coercive. I want you to feel inspired while also feeling free.

Thank you for reading.

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